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A podcast examining the meta-story of your life, whether it is serving you, and how to change it for the better. ...Come for the introspection, personal growth tools, social philosophy, and compassionate re-frames...stay for the side quests into non-linear time, life in an attention economy, the ethics of Sauron’s gaze, and why genre is a dialogue not a category.
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Monday Mar 11, 2024
Monday Mar 11, 2024
The Shadow...is that like Mordor, or something? Let's see, all the best monsters, the painful searing truth revealed by an all-seeing gaze, and a volcano hot enough to melt your most precious pretensions?...yeah, basically. Don't forget to bring your Sam!

Thursday Mar 07, 2024
Thursday Mar 07, 2024
A sneaky bonus episode to conclude the discussion of correspondences between the MTBI system, Jungian cognitive functions, and my growth alignments chart! What happens when you have a "split personality" where your favorite psychological lens fits into one style of growth, but your second-favorite fits into another? Or when you have a personality type made of a dominant and/or auxiliary function that can shift between two growth styles? Or when your personal energy reflects a method of growth that your functions might not match?

Monday Mar 04, 2024
Monday Mar 04, 2024
In which we continue our comparison of MTBI type preferences and RPG growth alignments! Today, in Part II, we explore the Jungian cognitive functions for Judging: Fi (introverted Feeling), Fe (extroverted Feeling), Ti (introverted Thinking), and Te (extroverted Thinking). Interestingly, this aspect of type yielded a different spread in our categories of Controlling, Envisioning, and Emerging approaches to growth. Any theories why?

Monday Feb 26, 2024
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Let's expand our understanding of the MTBI system AND our RPG style growth alignments chart by looking for the correlations between them! There will be two episodes on this topic. Today, in Part I, we explore the Jungian cognitive functions for Perceiving: Si (introverted Sensing), Se (extroverted Sensing), Ni (introverted iNtuiting), and Ne (extroverted iNtuiting). Any guesses where they fall on the growth alignment chart?

Monday Feb 19, 2024
Monday Feb 19, 2024
A personal account of growing up as "the odd one out" in my family and culture, looked at through the lens of emotional belief interpretation and then through the lens of MBTI preferences. Complete with feelings and poetry!

Monday Feb 12, 2024
Monday Feb 12, 2024
One of my very favorite "narratives," if you will, is the MBTI/Jungian personality type system. It is a cornerstone of my understanding of the human mind and a really helpful roadmap for our unfolding development. Take a dive with me into the basics of the system!

Monday Feb 05, 2024
Monday Feb 05, 2024
Perspective shifts are basically the awesome cousin of ego deaths that you actually want to invite to the party. What exactly are they, why are they such catalyzers for change, and how do get more of them?

Monday Jan 29, 2024
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Conundrum: how do you solve a problem, when that problem is defined as outside the bounds of the possible and is therefore innately unsolvable? Do you need to venture beyond the boundaries of Euclidean space-time? Or just re-think your assumptions about the (im)possible?

Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Now that we've learned the framework of Attachment Styles, let's apply it! RPG character class usually correlates to what we think of culturally as "personality traits" - are you funny, charming, shy, etc.? - and attachment styles actually have quite a big influence on the traits we express with others. Where do you get to boost your scores? ...and what do you have to lose to compensate?

Monday Jan 15, 2024
Monday Jan 15, 2024
A resource review/recommendation for the new book LEARNING LOVE by Thais Gibson with Sjorland Gibson. Includes a quick and dirty overview of attachment theory and a bit about my relationship (heh) with that framework.

Changing your perspective on life, relationships, your past, and even yourself doesn't have to take hours at a time. Learning one concept and integrating it well creates real change the same as an intense immersion...it just takes a little longer. It's also more likely to stay with you! Sustainable change comes from making small, manageable shifts that build on each other over time. Just like 12 inches become one foot, 12 small mindset shifts can become a new thought paradigm.
If you can find half an hour a week to listen, you can start changing your mindset to have more flexibility, compassion, and curiosity ... and less judgment, criticism, and shame.
I hope you'll join me on this quest to let go of stories about who you "should" be and feel more like your authentic self!